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Goodbye Slate Blue Skirt

  • Writer: sallyinstpaul
    sallyinstpaul
  • Jul 17
  • 5 min read

Today I'm continuing with my summer closet edit...

-Grey tipped blazer post is here;

-Navy short-sleeved jacket post is here;

-Light blue Henley t-shirt post is here.


The fourth item leaving my closet is this thrifted slate blue skirt from M.M. LaFleur that I purchased 6 years ago. The $20 price tag was reasonable given that their skirts sell new for $195 and up. I have previously talked about this skirt as one that is high quality and feels very "fancy/professional" for work, though I did learn to start styling it for work from home days as well.


I last wore this skirt in 2024 because in the summer of 2025, when I'd just left my job, I didn't feel like wearing skirts and wore a lot of pants and skimmer shorts instead. When I pulled it out earlier this summer, I decided that even though it still technically fit, it wasn't as comfortable in the waist/belly area as I preferred due to its woven fabric and lining having no give and the style being very structured. Since my days not working my desk job involve more movement than my office or even WFH days, overly structured or confining clothing does fit as well with my life.


I did not manage to get up to 30 wears with this skirt, but I did (barely!) reach my under $1 cost per wear goal. (I really don't know whether 30 wears should be the goal for a thrifted item that someone else has owned/worn before I did, but if people wear a garment 7 times on average, then maybe a goal of 23 wears would be appropriate...and I didn't quite reach that threshold either.)

Dark grey tipped blazer

One thing that made it easier to bid adieu to this lovely skirt is that it's always been that "one weird item" that doesn't match any other solid pieces in my wardrobe so I tended to wear it with neutrals or with certain print items that had a similar shade of blue to it. I think there's nothing wrong with having an odd man out item in your closet (and I wouldn't purge something I already own, like, and wear just because it's a "different" color), but since I like the convenience of being able to use color formulas like the inner column of color, "suit," modern twin set, etc., this skirt was less versatile than most of my clothes. Here you can see my collection of slate blue (including scarves with a slate blue-like background) - the skirt was the only piece of clothing in this color.

Grid of product thumbnails showing blue jewelry, scarves, and a skirt, with item labels on a white background.

Although I have worn this skirt in all seasons, I am sharing 7 ways that I styled it for summer from my OOTD archives.


#1: Print Blouse + Solid Cardigan


The cheetah blouse has a dark grey-blue background that seemed like a darker version of the slate blue skirt, so that combination looked good. The navy and blue floral top has a few other blue tones, so I figured I could make the slate blue work with it.

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OOTD Left: 7/10/2020; Right: 8/5/2020

#2: Bluebird Blouse


I have a thrifted Loft blouse with soft blue birds on a blush pink background that pairs well with the slate blue skirt. The left outfit was a failure because the buttoned white cardigan looked weird and I truly hated how that brighter blue scarf clashed with the skirt. The right outfit was much better with the bird blouse showing well underneath the chambray blazer and the various muted blue tones blending nicely.

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OOTD Left: 6/14/2021; Right: 9/2/2022

#3: Beige Striped Linen Top


This striped linen top is a boxy piece that is perfect for warm summer weather because it stands away from the body for good circulation. I can't layer over it due to the silhouette, but it's such a great stand-alone summer top with good coverage and visual interest that I wear it happily on its own. It doesn't match the slate blue skirt, but it goes.

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OOTD Left: 5/20/2021; Right: 9/7/2022

#4: Striped Sweatshirt


This sweatshirt has multiple shades of muted blue so the skirt works well with it. I can layer with this sweatshirt in cold weather, but for bare legs season, it's a stand-alone top. I also liked the juxtaposition of the casual sweatshirt style and the "fancy/professional" vibe of the skirt. As with the striped linen top, this is one of those "surrender the waist" silhouettes that is not everyone's jam, but liked it.

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OOTD Left: 5/23/2024; Right: 5/17/2023

#5: Navy Print Tops


Navy is a nice neutral to wear with the slate blue, and I have a couple of print tops that have a soft, greyed-out blue tone in the print that pairs well with the skirt. These tops are not as boxy/relaxed/oversized so the outfit's silhouette follows the shape of the body more closely. I could easily layer over these two tops if I wanted to do so.

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OOTD Left: 6/11/2024; Right: 6/8/2023

#6: Navy/Olive/Pink Floral Shirt


I bought this shirt because I was crazy about the colors and the print, but it's one of those "crisp button up shirts" made from stiff woven cotton that is rather uncomfortable for me to wear buttoned up like a shirt - it always seems to pull funny as I move around or feel weirdly constrictive (or I have to size up and then it looks strange for that reason). So it's become a lightweight shirt-jacket for the summer months that I can pop over a solid top. The light blue flowers are not the same shade as the slate blue skirt, but when matching a solid piece to a print piece, you have a lot of leeway to pair a color that is rather similar but still different.

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OOTD Left: 7/12/2023; Right: 6/18/2024

#7: Navy Floral Cardigan


This is another print summer layering piece that coordinates even if it doesn't match the skirt. The long flowy nature of this lightweight t-shirt knit cardigan is not a slam dunk with the flared shape of the skirt, but as you've seen, I'm not dead set on creating the most figure-flattering silhouette possible...especially in the summer time when I can struggle with overheating even in the air conditioning so comfort trumps balanced proportions every time.

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OOTD Left: 7/22/2024; Right: 5/30/2023

I don't own any skirts similar to this in color, but it's not something my closet needs. In fact, now that this skirt has left my wardrobe, I just don't really own any slate blue clothing, which is actually easier in some ways! I do have space in my wardrobe for a muted blue skirt that was a better match to my "soft blue," "chambray blue," and "soft indigo" collections (none of which have a skirt), but it's not something I'm seeking out. My indigo blue pants or denim skirts/jeans are easy to wear with those muted blues to create color formulas when I want them.


Do you have any "odd man out" pieces in your wardrobe that are a color that doesn't really match anything else? Do you have any clothes that have a "fancy/professional" energy that doesn't fit with your lifestyle? Have you tried to casualize those clothes for your day-to-day outfits? Where does comfort fall in your priorities for clothes/outfits?


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5 Comments


fyju
6 days ago

이용 과정이 간단하고 업무 설명이 명확해서 부담 없이 시작할 수유흥알바  관련 후기도 많아 참고하기 좋았고 실제 근무 환경도 설명과 비슷해 만족스러운 경험이었습니다.

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fyju
7 days ago

피곤한 하루를 정리하고 편안한 시간을 보내기 좋은 서비스로 소개됩니다. 이용 방식은 원하는 장소에서 받을 수 있는 장점이 있으며 개인 평택출장마사지 일정에 맞춰 활용하기 편리한 특징을 가지고 있습니다.

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Di Cook
Di Cook
Jul 25

Sally, that is a beautiful skirt, I love a flared style and you made it work with your existing wardrobe very well. If it doesn't feel quite right for your current lifestyle, I can see why you don't want it taking up space in your wardrobe! I definitely have some odd man out clothes in my closet. I find lately, it has been more difficult to get colors in the same family, matching or blending well together. What is that all about? Is it just me, or are there many more odd colors and shade available? I always enjoy your analysis in your posts. Thanks for sharing and hope you have a good weekend!

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jodie filogomo
jodie filogomo
Jul 17

This brand is one that sells well on thredUp...and at least you wore it many, many times. I do have some odd man out colors in my closet, but then again, I like variety. XOXO Jodie

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mlrbanks57
Jul 17

Some would probably say most of my closet is odd man out!!! But, that's what makes them fun. I can see why you got rid of this skirt, though. It lacks personality, and if it's uncomfortable in any way, then out it goes! I did like a lot of the outfits you put together. I think you said it best when you wrote you don't miss it in your closet. That's kind of my thought..."Will I miss this if I get rid of it?" If the answer is no, out it goes.


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